Candour Communication Podcast

1:04- behind the scenes: podcast stats - number of countries, downloads and fan favourite episodes.  
6:11 - We're putting the podcast on hold indefinitely.  
9:54 - Mark's favourite episode: Chris Marhefka.  
14:38 - Adrian Spear episode: distance between stimulus and response.  
15:39 - Grant  Herbert episode: be yourself.
16:13 - funniest moments: Lisa Linke, Christian Fleck, Daisy Simonis.  
19:32 - most inspiring guests: Dr Everett Worthington, Ashley Kesner, Ricardo Gonzalez, Greg van Borssum.  
24:29 - most surprising moments: grief (Jillian Rosoff and David Richman) and erotic empathy (Amanda Luterman), backburners (Dr Michelle Drouin).
30:45 - the counter-intuitive Danish way of parenting: Jessica Joelle Alexander.  
34:07 - most informative: Dr Timothy Levine.  
38:43 - episodes on trust: Marie-Clarie Ross and Melanie Marshall.  
39:00 - presenting and storytelling: Laurie Gilbertson.  
40:26 - story telling: Francisco Mahfuz, Gabrielle Dolan.  
44:07 - quick recap of topics covered in the podcast.  
45:17 - leadership episodes: David Neal and Ryan Hartley.  
48:02 - topics that we would have liked to do?  
50:26 - benefits of doing the podcast: meeting people.  
51:14 - empathy: Dr Ashok Bhattacharya and Daniel Murray.  
53:11 - relationships are at the heart of life: Dr Michelle Drouin, Craig Bulmer and Ashley Fico.  
54:48 - knowing better does not mean doing better: Divan's communication mistake.  
59:32 - feedback: Jason Rosoff and Paul Farina.  
1:01:09 - Tina Robinson: "all behaviour is communication".  
1:01:40 - Mark's recommendations: Chris Marhefka, Dr Michelle Drouin, Amanda Luterman, Jessica Joelle Alexander.  
1:02:45 - Divan's recommendations: Jessica Joelle Alexander, Francisco Mahfuz, David Neal, Dr Ashok Bhattacharya, Jason Rosoff, Dr Timothy Levine.
1:05:15 - practice is as important as knowledge.  
1:05:50 - wrapping up the podcast.  
1:09:52 - connect with Divan and Mark.  
1:10:28 - final words.  
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/the-finale/

1:33 - being present rather than prepared.  
4:26 - the moments that happen when we're present.  
6:04 - being in the moment allows you to interact with your audience.  
7:56 - does the costume help to lower inhibitions?  
9:43 - curiosity, empathy and naivete.  
11:28 - training yourself to see as if it was your first time seeing.  
14:00 - how did clowning start for Angie?  
16:23 - clowning is vulnerable and authentic.  
24:10 - how Angie's previous careers helped with clowning.  
27:31 - clowning in the corporate environment.  
32:10 - you are more than the role you perform.  
34:23 - the value of staying in the mess.  
36:50 - those moments of stuck aren't real.  
38:32 - making the time and space to play.  
39:53 - status games.  
45:23 - clowns play, they don't act.  
46:22 - overthinking makes us perform worse.  
48:18 - the role of the court jester.  
51:22 - how the class transforms through clowning.  
56:51 - we connect through our imperfections.  
1:00:02 - connect with Angie.  
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/angie-wakeman/

1:21 - the first person to disagree on LinkedIn.
5:20 - the countries Florian has lived in. 
7:18 - most difficult country to adapt to. 
9:17 - are people less friendly in some countries? 
12:32 - some cultures are more indirect.
14:36 - how to get an insight to the country’s unwritten rules.
16:30 - how Florian felt about going to a boarding school in a new country where he didn’t speak the language.
18:09 - why should people live in a different country? 
24:45 - a new country is a clean slate. 
27:10 - finding yourself when travelling. 
32:00 - fear of failure stopping us from starting. 
36:57 - don’t overthink what you say because people don’t care. 
39:10 - tying self worth to people’s opinions. 
41:48 - learning and fear and failure. 
44:18 - is social media a waste of time? 
47:50 - create a learning entourage. 
50:30 - the benefits of learning new languages. 
57:45 - how to learn a new language? 
1:09:21 - connect with Florian.
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at:  https://candourpodcast.com/florian-decludt/

2:43 - no fear of public speaking after doing a body building competition.
8:38 - focus on who you want to be, not what you want to be.
15:33 - people are not trusted to do the job they were hired for.
16:26 - being trusted is not up to you to decide, its up to the other person.
17:36 - why Melanie wrote the book, Trust.
20:37 - respect comes from feeling trusted.
21:41 - the core of communication and leadership.
22:52 - what do organisations look like when there is no trust?
27:26 - trust is just as important for personal relationships.
31:9 - getting people to own up to bad news.
38:5 - deal with conflicts early.
42:47 - why beliefs about trust are important.
45:46 - belief about whether trust is earned or given.
47:23 - earning trust.
51:50 - HEART + SOUL model of trust.
55:19 - honesty: does it require trust or build trust?
56:20 - earning trust is on their timeframe, not ours.
58:53 - don't jump in with the answer.
62:5 - does helping others build or erode trust?
64:29 - responding from values rather than reacting from emotion.
72:36 - can you be too nice?
75:39 - when you have to build trust very quickly.
81:0 - taking time to connect at work can feel non-productive.
94:10 - connect with Melanie.
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/melanie-marshall/

2:10 - Alexander Hamilton.  
5:02 - what drew Laurie into criminal law?  
10:26 - the most important lessons Laurie's father taught her was about communication.  
11:55 - importance of credibility when making your case.  
14:18 - logic vs emotion in arguing a case.  
17:32 - the importance of primacy: making the most of an opening statement.  
23:53 - knowing your audience when the audience is very diverse.  
27:37 - dealing with difficult people in the audience.  
30:25 - we can easily misread our audience.  
31:57 - the stories we tell ourselves can hinder communication.  
33:16 - how to prepare for presentations.  
38:16 - can you prepare too much?  
43:23 - making a closing argument.  
46:36 - communication lessons from interrogating witnesses.  
48:58 - if you want honest feedback, ask kids.  
52:01 - let your witness be the star of the show.  
55:32 - arguing cases you don't believe in.  
1:02:27 - adapting your presentation style for television.  
1:04:26 - biggest barrier to good presentations: being yourself.  
1:06:24 - do people struggle more with content or delivery?  
1:09:56 - be like a child when speaking on stage.  
1:12:13 - connect with Laurie Gilbertson. 
You can find more detailed show notes with links to references at: https://candourpodcast.com/laurie-gilbertson