What We Said

Age is just a number until you’re staring at a messy room, staying up way too late, and wondering when exactly you were supposed to outgrow all of this. This week, Jaci and Chelsey are reading listener submissions about the things we’re officially too old for. Some probably should’ve ended after college, while others are a little more niche, like overly sweet beverage concoctions. The Valley girl latte doesn’t count, obviously. Last minute plans and overused words like “slay” are also up for debate. Growing older may be inevitable, but growing out of your favorite little habits is apparently optional. Tune in to see what listeners said they're moving on from!

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CATCH UP: 0:08
THINGS WE’RE TOO OLD FOR: 29:00

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This week on the What We Said Podcast, Jaci and Chelsey are joined by Lauren and Chanler, the sisters behind The Pop Apologists Podcast. There’s so much that goes into recording a podcast with someone as close as your sibling or best friend, and with experience in both dynamics, the duos discuss what to consider before getting behind the mic with your closest girl. After all, disagreements about contracts or cover art are bound to happen. Lauren and Chanler also share their perspective on dating later in life than the Valley girls did before weighing in on listener submissions of “Who’s in the Right?” How should you approach venting about relationship issues with friends or coworkers, if it’s even appropriate at all? Do brides have dominion over their guests’ bodies before the wedding? Tune in for sisterly insight on these questions, and many more!

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NYC CATCH UP: 0:08
POP APOLOGISTS: 19:52
WHO'S IN THE RIGHT: 56:41

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It wouldn’t officially be November without a new advice column! This week, Jaci and Chelsey are helping a listener whose husband saw a woman on the street, thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world, and DMed her just to confirm it, plus someone struggling to find the right mental health diagnosis and a first time mom in the depths of the newborn phase. There’s plenty more advice where that came from, so grab a cozy drink and let the girls talk you through it.

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CATCH UP: 0:08
ADVICE: 25:01

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Celebrity crushes, Chelsey going blonde, twins, and H3 drama. That’s all before we even get into the main topic of today’s episode: HR nightmares. Kind of like what Ethan is going through, in a way. Listeners submitted their worst workplace stories involving the most universally lame department of them all. We’ve got raunchy audiobooks playing over a Bluetooth speaker in the office, wildly personal questions about surgeries, and coworkers hooking up in very risky places. These HR managers are breaking the very laws they swore to enforce. Who do you report HR to when HR is the problem?

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Chester and Jasper are back, funnier, better, and with more hair than ever. After a night out on the town, the boys sit down for a quick chat before Chester ties the knot with his lady, Cathy. However, the sins of last night come back to haunt them, leaving the big day in jeopardy. Things get even scarier with the segment you’ve been waiting for all October: scariest stories. Listeners submitted their most horrifying memories, including Ubers from the cemetery, mysterious phone calls from ghosts, and haunted classrooms. You’ve been warned, this episode has Halloween horror written all over it. Listen at your own peril!

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CHESTER & JASPER: 0:08
GET SPOOKED: 21:14

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