Savvy Psychologist

556. "Narcissist" has become one of the most overused words in pop psychology — applied to anyone selfish, difficult, or emotionally unavailable. This week, Dr. Judy Ho brings her clinical and forensic lens to provide a science-backed take on narcissism. We look at what it actually is, what it isn't, what it looks like in real life and in legal settings, and what to do if you think you're dealing with someone high in narcissistic traits.

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555. When Justin Bieber confronted his past on the Coachella 2026 stage, it did more than just go viral—it acted as a mirror for our own needs. This week, Dr. Judy Ho explores what our reactions to "healing moments" reveal about our own complex emotions. We get into the science-backed difference between a public performance and private progress, offering actionable insights into building emotional fitness without the pressure of a "perfect" comeback.
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Dr. Ho's website, Substack, LinkedIn.
Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Find a transcript at QuickandDirtyTips.com.
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554. This week, Dr. Ho reveals that people-pleasing isn't a personality trait—it’s a survival strategy. If you constantly say "yes" while feeling a quiet sense of self-betrayal, you’re likely stuck in the fawn response, a nervous system reflex designed to keep you safe by keeping others happy.
Dr. Judy breaks down:
Kindness vs. Compulsion: Why true generosity feels good, but people-pleasing feels like fear.
The "Social Pain" Connection: How your brain processes rejection exactly like physical injury.
The High Cost of Silence: Why "keeping the peace" actually destroys intimacy and fuels resentment.
Take Action: Learn three practical tools to break the cycle, including the "Pause Practice" to stop the automatic yes and how to name the specific fears driving your behavior.
Stop performing and start being known.

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Dr. Ho's website, Substack, LinkedIn.
Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Find a transcript at QuickandDirtyTips.com.
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553. Ever wonder why you stall out just when things are going well? It’s not laziness—it’s your brain’s ancient survival system misfiring. This week, neuropsychologist Dr. Judy Ho breaks down the science of self-sabotage.
You’ll learn:
The L.I.F.E. Factors: The four core reasons we hold ourselves back.
The 6 Thought Triggers: How to spot the mental shortcuts that lead to "misfires."
3 Practical Tools: Simple techniques to "rewind the tape" and break the cycle today.
Self-Sabotage Assessment Quiz
Stop being your own worst enemy and start turning insight into action.

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Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Find a transcript at QuickandDirtyTips.com.
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552. Have you ever felt a sudden wave of dread and wondered, "Is this it?" If you’re wrestling with big questions about your purpose, you aren’t broken—you’re experiencing a universal part of being human.
In this episode, Dr. Judy Ho explains that existential anxiety isn't a malfunction; it's a message from your brain to pay attention to your life. Whether you are navigating a quarter-life crisis, a midlife transition, or a major identity shift, learn how to turn that discomfort into a values-driven path forward.
Key insights include:
Meaning over pleasure: Why humans are driven by meaning and how "eudaimonic" flourishing is more protective against distress than temporary pleasure.
The paradox of choice: How social media and infinite options can paralyze our ability to choose a meaningful life.
Values as a compass: Why you should live by your values—which are inexhaustible directions—rather than your fleeting moods or temporary goals.
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More from Dr. Ho on her other channels:
Dr. Ho's website, Substack, LinkedIn.
Savvy Psychologist is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips. Find a transcript at QuickandDirtyTips.com.
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