She’s faking it and you don’t even know it. Here’s how to tell—and what to do about it. If you are a man who wants to master sex and create unforgettable experiences, you’ll learn how to spot the difference between authentic pleasure and performance, how to build the kind of trust that makes honesty irresistible, and what it really takes to become the man she can’t fake it with. Learn the five signs that reveal when she’s pretending, and the exact strategies that transform fake responses into real, raw pleasure. Whether you’re single and dating or in a long-term relationship, this episode gives you the tools to stop guessing and start leading with confidence. Don’t be the guy she has to fake it with. Be the one she brags about. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you’ll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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This Is What Women Secretly Desire That Porn Never Teaches
Stop letting porn and bad sex ed sabotage your sex life If you are a man who struggles with performance anxiety, premature ejaculation, or low confidence in bed, this episode will change the way you think about sex. You’ll learn why most men’s sexual education set you up for failure, how porn-induced erectile dysfunction hijacks your arousal, and what to do to reclaim your power. Learn how to slow down, understand women’s bodies at a deeper level, and practice the discipline that creates real mastery. Discover the role of polarity in relationships, how to revive a dead bedroom, and why sexual energy is the most powerful force you can harness for every part of your life. Whether you’re single and frustrated or in a long-term relationship that feels flat, this episode has the insight you need. Stop settling for mediocrity in the bedroom—start building the sex life you’ve always wanted. Conenct with Jackson Hightower https://app.naturaljackson.com/ 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you’ll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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How To Overcome Sexual Shame and Build Confidence in the Bedroom
Your sexual shame is stealing your power and you don't even know it's happening If you are a man struggling with sexual confidence you will learn shame healing, how to reclaim authentic sexual expression. Learn why shame blocks arousal and how childhood interpretations create limiting beliefs that follow you into the bedroom. Whether you are single and dating or in a committed relationship this episode has insight for you. Stop performing and start experiencing the sexual freedom you deserve. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you’ll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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These 7 Lies Are Silently Killing Your Sex Life and Confidence—Here’s How to Break Free.
If you’re a man who feels stuck in the bedroom, struggles to connect with women, or doubts yourself when it comes to sex, you’ll learn the truth about sexual confidence, how to create deeper connection, and how to let go of the pressure that kills intimacy. Learn why performance isn’t the measure of masculinity and why authenticity always wins. Whether you’re single and frustrated or in a relationship and wanting more, this episode will open your eyes to the hidden beliefs holding you back. The men who drop these lies don’t just become better lovers—they become better men. It’s time to see the truth, reclaim your confidence, and master your sexuality. 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you’ll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
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Narcissist, Toxic, Emotionally Unavailable: Why Men Keep Getting Mislabeled
Is being a man now a mental health diagnosis? If you’ve ever been called emotionally unavailable, a narcissist, or even a sex addict just for wanting connection, you’re not alone. If you're a man trying to build real intimacy and lead with integrity, you’ll learn how therapy language is being misused, how to spot emotional manipulation, and what to do when you’re constantly being labeled. Learn how to reclaim your sexual confidence and how to navigate emotional intimacy—without abandoning your masculinity. Whether you’ve been accused of being “too much” or have felt confused by the emotional chaos in modern dating, this episode will help you find clarity. This is not about blaming—it’s about breaking free. Connect with Dr. Isabelle Mortley Get her book: They're Not Gaslighting You HERE: https://amzn.to/4mpB8PP 🔥 Ready to transform your sex life? Get your FREE Orgasmic Breathwork Practice Guide: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/guide In just 10 minutes, you’ll feel more sensitivity, more presence, and more pleasure—solo or partnered. 🧡 Follow Kirsten Trammell for daily insights: IG: https://www.instagram.com/nakedconnection/?hl=en Website: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/ ❓Have a question you want answered on the show? Submit it anonymously here: https://thenakedconnection.com/question 🎓 Want to go deeper? Join my Legendary Lover Training Program: https://www.thenakedconnection.com/legendary-lover
O The Naked Connection: Master Sex, Dating & Relationships
Welcome to The Naked Connection, the show for motivated men who want to build deeper connections and have better communication and sex with women.
Your host, Kirsten, is on a mission to help you build meaningful romantic connections so that you can live with purpose and freedom. Kirsten studied under the VITA methodology, a tantric and holistic approach to sex, love, and relationships, and is currently in grad school to become a Licensed Sex Therapist.
If you are ready to replace the pressure to perform with pleasure, be confident in sex and dating, easily communicate with the woman you want, and build a lasting relationship…this podcast is a must-listen!
It is time to experience what is truly possible. Now, let's get some!