The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast

#118 I almost didn’t release this episode—and that’s exactly why I had to. In this raw episode, I'm sharing the good, bad, and ugly of a tough year: surviving long-distance D/s, facing kink community drama, and the hard boundaries I drew to protect myself and my work. Listen through the end to hear what’s coming next—and why I'm not backing down.➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/118❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

#117 One of you is kinky, the other... not so much. Is that a deal-breaker—or just a hard conversation you’ve been avoiding? Relationship coach Amanda Dames breaks down how kinky/vanilla couples can talk about desire without shame, translate needs clearly, and decide what’s actually sustainable long-term. No pressure. No fixing. Just honesty. Listen now, then follow Amanda Dames and check out The Kink Consultant podcast for deeper guidance.➡️ Check out Amanda's site: https://www.amandadames.com➡️ Listen to her podcast, The Kink Consultant: https://podfollow.com/1766435920➡️ Download her free workbook, "Speak Your Desires with Confidence": https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1

#116 What do you do when real life and D/s collide?👉 Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/communityToday Jay and Alesandra answer your biggest Dom/sub questions: long-distance rules, sub drop, fear of judgment, family boundaries, punishment, switching, and even dirty talk styles. Join our Dom Sub Living Community to ask your own questions next episode!➡️ Join the free Dom Sub Living Community: https://domsubliving.com/community➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/116❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

#115 Slave training doesn’t fall apart because the sub fails — it falls apart because the Dom can’t stay consistent. In this episode, Jay shares how our Master/slave training began, why most structures collapse, and the one thing Doms must master to keep their dynamic strong, sustainable, and consensual. Tap play to learn the simple shift that makes slave training actually work.➡️ Free weekly newsletter: https://domsubliving.com/signup➡️ Get deeper support: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess

#114 Can you kneel for your partner and still stand for equality?❤️ Download your free cheat sheet, 'How to Be a Good Sub': https://domsubliving.com/subIn this episode, we're exploring how feminism and submission actually complete each other. Learn why power exchange isn’t powerless, how shame transforms into choice, and what true consent means in D/s. 💬 Got thoughts? Comment or DM Alesandra on Instagram: @domsubliving➡️ Free 'How to Be a Good Sub' Cheat Sheet: https://domsubliving.com/sub➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/114❤️ Join the All-Access Pass for community, coaching, and courses: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess