#094 Are BDSM teachers getting it wrong?✅ Join the All Access Pass at https://domsubliving.com/allaccessWe're exposing 10 harmful myths most BDSM educators still teach — from punishment-first training to ignoring a Dom's emotional needs. If you've ever felt like you're doing BDSM “wrong,” this is the truth you’ve been waiting for.➡️ Join the All-Access Pass: https://domsubliving.com/allaccess➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/094➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
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Not Sure You’re a “Real” Dom or Sub? Listen to This
#093 “Am I too new? Too awkward? Not ‘dominant’ enough?”If you've ever felt like a fake or imposter in BDSM, you’re not alone. We're sharing how to build confidence, stop self-doubt, and finally feel like a “real” Dom or sub — even without a partner. Tune in now to start owning your role with confidence.➡️ Join the free bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/093➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
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How to Explore BDSM WITHOUT a Partner
#092 Think you need a partner to explore BDSM? Think again. Learn how to build skills, rituals, and confidence as a Dom or sub—solo. Avoid beginner mistakes and prep for your ideal dynamic. Ready to start your journey? Join our free Bootcamp!➡️ Free Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/092➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
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Is Fifty Shades of Grey Really that Bad?
#091 “I don’t make love—I f*ck. Hard.”📝 Get your free BDSM contract at https://domsubliving.com/contractIs Fifty Shades of Grey really that bad… or are we just mad it opened the door for millions? In this deep dive, we're breaking down what it got wrong (and very wrong), what it got right, and why it still matters. Hit play and get ready to move beyond fiction.➡️ Free BDSM contract template: https://domsubliving.com/contract➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/091➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
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How to Train Your Sub
#090 What if training your sub could feel more like bonding with a dragon than shouting commands?👉 Grab the free “How to Be a Good Dom” Quick Start guide at https://domsubliving.com/dominantWe're sharing real-world ways to build trust, create habits that stick, avoid common Dom mistakes, and adjust training styles for every type of sub. Strengthen connection, not control.➡️ Access the free Dominant Quick Start Guide: https://domsubliving.com/dominant➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/090➡️ Join the FREE BDSM Jumpstart bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp/
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
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