In Your Pants with Dr. Susie G

**Spinal Cord Injuries & Sexuality: Tips from an OT & Sexologist**
On today's show we have Norwegian Occupational Therapist and Sexologist,  Vanja Rizvic. We discuss the unique role of occupational therapy in pelvic and sexual health, the impacts of spinal cord injuries on sexuality, and share several practical strategies to navigate sexual dysfunction or dissatisfaction. From sensory play to reframing sexuality perspectives and fostering communication, Vanja guides us on an empowering journey of embracing our sexuality through curiosity and courage to enhance our sexual pleasure and well-being.
Guest Bio:
Vanja holds a bachelor's degree in Occupational Therapy, and has since 2017 worked in both outpatient and inpatient settings. He started his career at a hand therapy department, working with rheumatological illnesses and orthopedic injuries. Vanja has also worked in physical medication and rehabilitation, and currently works at one of Norway's biggest hospitals for rehabilitation medicine. He works specifically with spinal cord injuries, and has a special interest in sexual health and pelvic floor therapy. Vanja is a proud alumn of Lindsey vestals OT pioneers and is a sexual health advocate in the Norwegian OT community.
Connect with Vanja on IG: @vvnnjjaa https://www.instagram.com/vvnnjjaa/
Video Chapters:
- 00:00 Meet our video sponsor, Mainspring Medical featuring Vacurect
- 00:40 Podcast Guest Introduction, Occupational Therapist and Sexologist Vanja Rizvic
- 02:15 The role of occupational therapists in sexuality and sexual health
- 02:30 Domains of occupational therapy for sex: context, potential, and narratives
- 07:03 Sexual dysfunction as a trojan horse, the whole-person approach to improving sexual issues
- 09:09 Supporting sexual function through relationship
- 13:20 What is a spinal cord injury
- 14:32 How a spinal cord injury impacts sex
- 15:50 Autonomic dysreflexia considerations during sex
- 17:40 Primary, secondary, and tertiary impacts to bladder, bowel, and sexual function with as spinal cord injury
- 21:25 Orgasm and ejaculation with a spinal cord injury
- 23:45 Sexual function versus sexual satisfaction
- 29:00 Sex and sexual identity as an occupational narrative
- 33:05 3 tips to explore with for sexual dysfunction
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RESOURCES:
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Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program
CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:
Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/
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Disclaimer:
This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
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On today's show, we're diving into the complexities surrounding men's experiences in dating, intimacy, and sexuality, shedding light on the challenges often masked by societal expectations. Our exploration involves dismantling myths and internalized narratives that shape the lives of men and their partners, sexually and beyond. We also discuss how thoughts and beliefs can influence our capacity for pleasure and physiological functions like erections and ejaculation.
🎟️Join us at the Men's Pelvic & Sexual Health Summit, where dating coach Erika Davian will be sharing expert advice on "First-Time Sex: Navigating the Experience with Confidence." Don't miss this opportunity to explore healthy intimacy and sexual well-being! Tickets at https://sexualhealthsummits.com
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📢 To stay up-to-date on pelvic and sexual health tip and exercises, subscribe, hit the notification bell, and like this video!
Episode Chapters:
00:00 Meet Vacurect! Our episode sponsor
00:50 Meet mens dating coach, Erika Davian and summary of episode
2:30 Surrogate partner therapy for hands on practice
3:32 What you should expect with a surrogate partner therapist
5:07 Difference between men's dating coach and surrogate partner therapist
7:07 Providers who work exclusively with men: a personal reflection
11:14 Unhealthy social narratives around men's dating and intimacy
18:30 Sensate touch focus
20:18 Thoughts and beliefs influence physical sexual function and pleasure
24:40 Why Viagra doesn't work
26:48 Defensive reactions around women discussing men's sexual health issues
30:00 Empathy during sex is sexy!
32:30 Connect with Erika
CONNECT WITH ERIKA DAVIAN:
Website: ErikaDavian.com
Surrogate Partner Therapy: Sessionswitherika.com
Podcast: Bachelor to Boyfriend https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bachelor-to-boyfriend/id1681585833
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erikadavian?igsh=bnppNXNnOWswYWE5
RESOURCES:
Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program
CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:
Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/
Disclaimer:
This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
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On today's In Your Pants Podcast, we discuss the intersection of faith and intimacy, bridging the gap between the sacred and the sexy! The discussion on religion and sexuality is often delicate and loaded with tension, especially for those who have grown up in religious communities.
Our guests, Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson, hosts of the Sexvangelicals Podcast, unpack the emotional and sexual ramifications for couples navigating life in religious communities or after leaving religious communities. The conversation touches upon the challenges couples face due to adverse religious experiences and share practical communication tips to empower couples in fostering more enjoyable and fulfilling sexual experiences.
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About our guests
Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson are the co-hosts of the podcast Sexvangelicals: The Sex Education the Church Didn't Want You to Have. They are both Boston-based licensed psychotherapists and certified sex therapists who work with clients in Massachusetts. They currently live in Utrecht, The Netherlands. They specialize in helping couples with negative religious backgrounds discover sexuality that works for their partnership. They enjoy traveling to places that tend to fly under the radar, long-distance hiking, cooking very spicy food, unexpected conversations, and introverted days filled with reading and drinking fancy tea. They're on Instagram, @sexvangelicals, and Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com
Connect with Julia and Jeremiah:
Website: www.sexvangelicals.com
IG:  @sexvangelicals
FB:  @sexvangelicals
Substack at sexvangelicals.substack.com
Episode Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
02:15 Relational and sexual impacts for couples leaving religious communities
06:09 Challenges people face in religious communities around sexuality
08:18 When spiritual values conflict with sexual values and pleasure
12:45 Religious narratives and purity culture impacts on sex and pleasure
19:20 Purity culture impact on men and women
20:23 Painful sex and healing with pelvic floor physical therapy
27:43 Communication tips for couples around sex and pleasure
36:18 Connect with Julia and Jeremiah
RESOURCES:
Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program
CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:
Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/
Disclaimer:
This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
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Today, we're diving into the world of Surrogate Partner Therapy with our guest Travis Sigley.
We delve into the essence of Surrogate Partner Therapy, uncover what it entails, who can benefit, and how to approach this nuanced subject within relationships. Travis will also share invaluable insights on self-care in the realm of sexuality and navigating alternatives when access to a surrogate partner therapist isn't available. So, join us as we navigate this conversation, learning from Travis's wealth of experience and dedication to fostering healthier, more fulfilling connections in the world of intimacy and sexuality.
About Travis Sigley
Travis Sigley is a passionate human who cares deeply about education, care, accountability, mental/physical/emotional health, and community. They have been working in the intimacy and sexuality field for 15 years. Their first business was Cuddle Therapy, started in San Francisco as the first known professional cuddling service. Through many years and iterations since, their newest venture is in Surrogate Partner Therapy, where they are currently in the final stages of certification via mentorship.
Connect with Travis at travis.sigley [at] gmail.com
Video Chapters:
00:00 Introduction
2:08 What is surrogate partner therapy?
03:20 How does surrogate partner therapy work? Here's what you can expect.
06:03 Difference between surrogate partner therapy and sex work
07:18 Who could benefit from surrogate partner therapy?
09:00 How to find a surrogate partner therapist
09:54 Approaching sexual intimacy challenges as part of self-care
13:05 Communication with a partner around surrogate partner therapy
15:55 Disclosure of surrogate partner therapy to a partner
18:21 Travis's personal inspiration to become a surrogate partner therapist
22:15 Connect with Travis Sigley
RESOURCES:
Surrogate Partner Collective: https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/ Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Resource Group: https://www.embracespt.org/ International Professional Surrogate Association: https://www.surrogatetherapy.org/what-is-surrogate-partner-therapy
Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program
CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:
Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/
Disclaimer:
This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
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🔥🔥 Learn more from men's sex coach Taylor Johnson at our world-premier online Men's Sexual and Pelvic Health Summit, November 9-10, 2024. This summit is for men and the people who love them. 🎟️ Get your discounted tickets now. Prices go up in October!
In today's In Your Pants Podcast episode, I dive deep into the topic of non ejaculatory orgasms for men, enhancing sexual pleasure, and building sexually satisfying relationships alongside certified sexologist and men's sex coach, Taylor Johnson. Taylor brings a wealth of practical wisdom, offering authentic strategies for men to immediately enhance and prolong their sexual pleasure without ejaculating. We unpack the intricate layers of internal sexual scripts and societal gender expectations that often breed performance anxieties. We dissect the influence of pornography on sexual experiences and expectations and explore how couples who have drifted apart emotionally and sexually can reignite the flames of their intimacy. Tune in and engage your senses because this is one episode you certainly won't want to miss.
ABOUT THE GUEST: Taylor Johnson is a certified sexologist and sex coach for men, who is dedicated to helping men thrive in sex, life and relationships.
CONNECT WITH TAYLOR JOHNSON:
Website: www.taylorjohnson.life
Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
Podcast**:** www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast
Orgasmic Mastery Course**:** https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:32 Introducing men's sex coach Taylor Johnson
01:50 3 strategies to enhance men's sexual pleasure without ejaculating
03:00 The most powerful sexual tool to last longer in bed
06:54 How to have a whole body orgasm
09:15 Slowing down sexual intercourse
11:08 Non ejaculatory orgasm versus ejaculatory orgasm
13:53 Solo masturbation and self-pleasure practices to train ejaculation
16:55 Delayed ejaculation and ejaculating for stress relief
20:00 Your partner's sexual expectations influence sexual pleasure and satisfaction
22:30 Communication is key for a satisfying and pleasurable sexual relationship
25:00 Personal experience of not ejaculating during sex
26:17 How to deal with performance worry and pressure during sex
34:08 How does pornography impacts erections, ejaculation, and sexual relationship dynamics?
39:00 Sexually re-connecting with a partner after being "sexless" for some time
43:56 Connecting with Taylor Johnson
RESOURCES:
Free sex and pelvic pain resources https://drsusieg.com/resources
Online Pelvic Pain Relief Program for Men https://drsusieg.com/pelvic-pain-in-men-online-program
CONNECT WITH ME (DR. SUSIE) AND TEAM:
Website: https://drsusieg.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.susieg/ and https://www.instagram.com/lainie_ot/
Disclaimer:
This information is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a healthcare professional with any questions you may have regarding treatment, medications/supplements, or any medical diagnoses. This information is intended for educational purposes only and is in no way to substitute the advice of a licensed healthcare professional.
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