In today’s episode, we dive into a truth most of us ignore: staying the same is actually harder than changing. We talk about why holding onto old versions of ourselves feels “safe,” even when they’re quietly breaking us, and why the pain of stagnancy is heavier than the fear of starting over. This episode is your reminder that discomfort doesn’t mean something is wrong; it often means you’re finally growing.If you’ve been feeling stuck, restless, or afraid to take the next step… this conversation will feel like a deep breath. You are allowed to change. You are allowed to evolve. And you are allowed to become someone new.A soft push for anybody who needs it today — because staying the same is harder, and your new life is waiting.With love, Mafe 🤍Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content:patreon.com/ImissedmeCheck out my personal socials below 👇https://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresOur Sponsors:* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzuresSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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STOP BEING AFRAID TO START OVER
In today’s episode, we talk about something so many of us avoid but eventually face: starting over.The endings we fear, the in-betweens that scare us, the unknown that makes us feel like everything is falling apart. But the truth is… starting over isn’t proof that you failed, it’s proof that you grew. It’s evidence that you were brave enough to choose yourself, even when it was uncomfortable.Beginning again requires so much courage, and you’re never actually starting from zero, you’re starting from everything you’ve survived.You’re not behind. You’re becoming. And you’re allowed to begin again — softly, slowly, and without explanation.With love, Mafe 🤍Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me.Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/ImissedmeCheck out my personal socials below 👇https://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresOur Sponsors:* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzuresSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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APPRECIATION = ATTRACTION
In today’s episode, we dive into one of the most powerful shifts you can make in your life: appreciation. Appreciation as awareness, presence, softness, and self-respect.We talk about why what you appreciate, appreciates — and how noticing the small, quiet miracles around you completely rewires your mind, deepens your relationships, and brings you back home to yourself.This episode is a reminder that you can’t attract from lack—you attract from contentment, from noticing, from choosing to say “thank you” for even the simplest things.If you’ve been chasing, forcing, comparing, or doubting… this episode is your gentle reset. A slower breath. A softer perspective. A reminder that nothing is missing — and that appreciation is the energy that brings everything you want closer.With love,Mafe 🤍Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedmeand check out all of I Missed Me.Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/ImissedmeCheck out my personal socials below 👇https://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresOur Sponsors:* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzuresSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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HOW TO ACTUALLY GET OVER SOMEONE
Today’s episode dives deep into something we’ve all faced: heartbreak. But not the kind where you pretend you’re fine while still checking their stories at 2 AM. This one’s about actually getting over someone emotionally, mentally, spiritually.Because getting over someone isn’t about forgetting them — it’s about forgiving yourself, outgrowing who you were, and choosing peace over chaos.If your heart still hurts right now, this episode is your reminder that healing is happening — even when you can’t feel it yet.With love, Mafe 🤍Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me.Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/ImissedmeCheck out my personal socials below 👇https://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresOur Sponsors:* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzuresSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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LOVE IS NOT A PERSON
We grow up believing love is something we find in another person that it’s something to search for, chase, or wait for. But love isn’t a destination or a single relationship. Love is everywhere.In this episode, we explore what it means to see love beyond romance — in friendships, in creativity, in kindness, in community, and within yourself. Love exists in every act of compassion, in the things that make you feel alive, and in the way you show up for the world.Love is not a person. Love is a force and it’s all around you.With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me.Sign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content: patreon.com/ImissedmeCheck out my personal socials below 👇 https://beacons.ai/mafeanzuresOur Sponsors:* Check out Shopify: https://shopify.com/mafeanzuresSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/i-missed-me/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
We’re all strangers healing together ❤️🩹To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down.Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey.With love, MafeGo to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed MeSign up to our membership and get access to monthly exclusive content patreon.com/ImissedmeCheckout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/