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Is Love Is Blind accidentally telling a regretful parents story?

In this solo episode of the Regretful Parents series, Erika dives into the viral Reddit discussion about Love Is Blind Season 6 and the controversial engagement between Emma and Mike — specifically their major disagreement about having children.From pronatalist pressure to “you’d make a great mother” propaganda, this episode breaks down:Why you should NEVER “convince yourself” to have a child
The red flags in Emma and Mike’s engagement
The moment when Emma’s sister admitted she regrets having kids (and why the internet shamed her for it)
Transracial adoption trauma and identity struggles
Medical concerns, genetic testing, and reproductive autonomy
Italian family expectations & cultural pressure to have grandchildren
Why marriage is about compromising paint colors — not parenthood
Have you been watching Love Is Blind this season? What did you think about Emma’s sister’s honesty? Can a relationship survive when partners disagree about kids? Drop your thoughts in the comments.

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We’re kicking off Season 10 with a recap of our 2025 Christmas Markets trip and getting a sneak peek ahead at our next adventure. We cover what surprised us, what we loved, and what we’d do differently in, plus with some tips of what we’d do differently! PS: we also preview our upcoming 2026 Christmas Markets trip featuring stops in Vienna and Munich.Please forgive that we are both FULLY sick and FULLY ADHD.

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Lavender Dreams & Riviera Nights With Erika

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What happens when parenting regret doesn’t go away… it just evolves?In this episode, Erika is joined by fellow childfree girlie Abby Porter (aka z00mie, aka “the girl with the list”)  to unpack a brand-new post from a parent whose regret has shifted from newborn exhaustion to something much heavier: existential anxiety, fear about the future, and the pressure of shaping a child’s entire life.

We discuss:
• Why regret can become more philosophical as kids grow
• The crushing pressure parents feel to “not mess up” their children
• Anxiety about AI, social media, and the modern world kids are growing up in
• The myth that motherhood comes naturally
• Why some people realize the realities of parenting too late
• How comparison culture and mommy influencers make parenting harder
• Whether thinking deeply about parenthood BEFORE kids could prevent regret

TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Intro + Meet Abby Porter
01:00 How parenting regret changes over time
03:00 Fear of traumatizing your kids (even if you’re a good parent)
05:00 Generational patterns, anxiety, and breaking cycles
07:00 Parenting anxiety about the future, AI, and safety
09:00 “Philosophical garbage” — unpacking that take
12:00 When motherhood isn’t what you expected
14:00 The myth that parenting comes naturally
16:00 Social media, mommy influencers, and comparison
18:00 Kids, screens, and the “iPad generation”
21:00 Therapist advice: stop spiraling or think deeper?
23:00 Why these conversations matter BEFORE having kids
24:50 Comment reactions + final thoughts

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In this episode, Erika and Kristen read and react to a viral post from Reddit about a parent struggling with a chronically unhappy, clingy, sleep-hating four-year-old — and the toll it’s taking on her mental health.From colicky babies to nonstop whining, sleep deprivation, and the reality of parenting advice that doesn’t always help, this conversation dives into the messy truth behind “it gets better.” Along the way, the hosts share personal stories, debate nature vs. nurture, question whether some kids are just born grumpy, and wonder if one tiny old-soul child simply belongs on a bench in New York complaining about life.

They also discuss:What chronic sleep deprivation does to parents
Why some kids always seem happier 
The pressure to follow perfect parenting advice
Why “just take them somewhere fun” isn’t always helpful
Whether kids actually enjoy things like trips to London or seeing Big Ben (apparently not 😅)
The overstimulation nightmare of kid-heavy spaces
And a wild intergenerational daycare idea spotted on TikTok
If you’ve ever wondered what happens when parenting isn’t magical — this episode is for you.

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In this episode, Kristen and Erika dive into another brutally honest story from the Regretful Parents series — this time from a 39-year-old single mother by choice who spent thousands on fertility treatment… and now says she feels trapped, broke, constantly sick, and deeply regretful.

If you’ve ever felt pressure from society, family, media, or your “biological clock” — this episode is for you.

We’re talking about:The reality of being a single mom by choice
Fertility treatment expectations vs. reality
Postpartum depression & long-term mental health struggles
Why parents say “it’s worth it” (even when it’s not)
The myth of “you’ll have so much support”
Constant illness after daycare
Why society pushes women toward marriage & motherhood
Disney, fairy tales, and lifelong conditioning
Marriage propaganda & pronatalist culture
Why antidepressants are often recommended to struggling parents
And the uncomfortable truth: what if you simply don’t enjoy parenting?
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