Welcome back to another episode of BUTT HONESTLY—your favorite unfiltered, over-18 podcast that somehow manages to talk about butts, blowjobs, and very real life all in one breath.September is Suicide Prevention Month, and the Booty Gang knows we don’t shy away from the tough stuff. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo bring in a licensed mental health professional—Dr. Ty David Lerman, founder of TDL Counseling—to tackle some of the biggest mental health challenges facing our community. From suicide and depression to stress, anxiety, kink, and even hypnosis (yes, hypnosis—it’s not just for Vegas acts anymore), no topic is off-limits.The guys ask Dr. Ty:Is there a singular or more specific reasons someone resorts to unaliving themselves??Are LGBTQ+ folks more prone to suicidal ideation?Can “casual meth use” actually exist, or is that like saying “casual tax audit”?What’s the difference between a panic attack and an anxiety attack?And the big one—does hypnosis really work, or will we end up clucking like chickens?It’s an episode packed with honesty, heart, and (because it’s us) just enough irreverence to keep you laughing while you learn. And of course, they wrap it all up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even heavy conversations deserve a soft landing.So grab your headphones, settle your cheeks, and get ready for an episode that proves you can laugh, learn, and cry—all in one sitting.https://www.instagram.com/tngoyankee?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3DAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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A Difference in Sex Drive with Court Vox-62
This week on Butt Honestly, we’re raising the bar (and maybe your blood pressure) with a guest who knows more about sex, intimacy, and connection than your last three hookups combined. Joining Dr. Carlton and Dangilo is none other than Court Vox—certified sex and intimacy coach, surrogate partner, and somatic wellness educator.Court has helped individuals and couples explore their sexuality, overcome sexual shame, and actually communicate (wild, right?). From building body confidence to navigating kinks, Court’s work is about creating healthier, more fulfilling relationships—whether that means deep emotional intimacy or simply making your next “Netflix and chill” session a little less… awkward.The guys dive in with the big questions:What exactly is the “male loneliness epidemic,” and why should you care?How do couples with very different kinks and sex drives actually make it work without one person faking a migraine every night? And what does true sexual connection look like when you take the shame and fear out of the equation?Of course, they wrap things up with their signature Love Language of the Week—because even when it gets deep, this show always ends with a little sweetness to balance out the spice.Court VOX: https://thebodyvox.com/Vote for Dangilo:https://gunoil.netlify.app/https://www.instagram.com/courtvox/Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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The Gay Ex-con Interview-61
On a recent episode of Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton casually mentioned a message he got on the apps—from a guy fresh out of prison looking for a hookup. What started as a spicy little anecdote quickly spiraled into one of our most talked-about Open Chat segments, with the Booty Gang flooding us with reactions, questions, and a healthy dose of curiosity.So this week, we’re taking it deeper (don’t we always?). Instead of our usual butt dials and booty calls, we sat down with someone who has lived that reality. Meet “Dayton”—not his real name, because Grindr isn’t the only place anonymity is sexy. Dayton has spent time in county jail, later served time in prison after violating probation, and now, post-release, he’s rebuilding his life and sharing his story.While his experiences may not be typical, they are raw, real, and unapologetically his. The Booty Gang sent in some candid questions (you never disappoint), and Dayton opens up with honesty, humor, and a perspective most of us only know from Netflix docuseries.This episode might not come with the usual Butt Dials and Ready Set Confuse—but trust us, it’s still one hell of a ride. Sometimes the most important conversations happen when you least expect them.👉 So loosen your cuffs (the fun kind or the jail kind, we don’t judge) and join us for this eye-opening conversation with Dayton.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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But Munch-60
Welcome back to another unapologetically cheeky episode of BUTT HONESTLY. This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are serving up equal parts education, chaos, and fart jokes (literally).First up, the Booty Gang delivers a grab bag of butt dials: one member wants answers about HPV (because Google isn’t always the best doctor), another self-identified BUTT MUNCH is worried about the risks of snacking where the sun don’t shine, and yet another listener is just looking to chill out after their nightly “release.” And if that weren’t enough, we’ve got a 60-something hero who’s ready to swing the back door open for some long-overdue visitors. Bless.Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton dishes about his night out at Back Hair Night, where the farts were plentiful and the men were hairy. The guys also recap FilmOut SD—from The Orchestra and Plainclothes—because culture is just as important as kink.And of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a steamy, hilarious, and slightly unhinged wrap-up with their Love Language of the Week.👉 Tune in, loosen up, and remember: whether you’re munching, releasing, or revisiting, your butt is always welcome here.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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The Prostate Files: Pokes, Pigs & Prison DMs-59
Welcome back to BUTT HONESTLY, the podcast that isn’t afraid to poke around where the sun doesn’t shine. This week, we’re zeroing in on the almighty prostate—and let’s just say, things get… stimulating.First up, a Booty Gang member writes in with questions about sex after prostate cancer, while another swears his prostate might be broken (spoiler: it’s not Amazon Prime, it doesn’t come with a warranty). And if that weren’t enough, a certain pig on the prowl checks in to let us know his prostate just got absolutely wrecked—but in the best possible way.Meanwhile, Dr. Carlton slides into the weird and wonderful world of his prison DMs (apparently, orange really is the new black), while Dangilo shares a bloody IV situation that’ll make you clutch your pearls… or at least your veins.Oh, and mark your calendars: Slutter Camp is happening August 30. If you’re not ready, now’s the time to stretch, hydrate, and maybe invest in a jockstrap or two.As always, the guys wrap it all up with their “Love Language of the Week” — because after all the prostate poking, prison proposals, and IV drama, you’ll need a soft landing.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Butt Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.