Talking Kinky - The Kink Chronicles

Sexsomnia: When Your Body Has Sex While You're Asleep - Tom meets Lacey a living breathing Sexomniac.
What happens when your body becomes sexual while your mind is completely asleep?
In this fascinating and deeply personal episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Lacey, who lives with sexsomnia, a little-known sleep disorder that can cause people to engage in sexual behaviours while asleep, with little or no memory of the events afterwards.
Lacey shares her journey of discovering she had sexsomnia, the impact it has had on her relationships, the confusion and embarrassment that often accompanies the condition, and how she learned to navigate intimacy while living with a disorder that many people have never even heard of.
Together, Tom and Lacey explore:
What sexsomnia actually is
How it differs from sleepwalking and other parasomnias
The challenges it creates in relationships
Consent, communication, and safety considerations
Common triggers and treatment options
The emotional impact of living with a misunderstood condition
The surprising science behind sleeping and sexual behaviour
This episode shines a light on a condition that sits at the intersection of sleep, sexuality, psychology, and human relationships. Whether you're hearing about sexsomnia for the first time or have personal experience with it, this conversation is eye-opening, educational, and surprisingly relatable.
As always, Talking Kinky approaches the topic with curiosity, humour, compassion, and a commitment to helping people better understand the wonderfully complex world of human sexuality.
Because sometimes the most surprising things happen when we're fast asleep. Lacey can be found here on Instagram

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom steps into the provocative world of the Mozambican professional dominatrix, Mistress Martina, for a raw and revealing conversation why her male clients love pain, humiliation, and domination. (Tom gets a provocative offer at the end of the episode, the question is will he take it?)
Together Tom and Martina explore the psychology, pleasure, and power dynamics behind BDSM, uncovering how trust, consent, and control shape some of the most intense fetish experiences. From dungeon realities to emotional transformation, this episode delivers an unfiltered look into the art of professional domination. It’s a cracker !

What really happens behind the velvet curtains of London’s high-society sex club scene?
With Isabelle out of commission for a while due to other commitments, Tom is going to be interviewing some special guests.
So, in this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Jasmine to lift the lid on a world of elegance, secrecy, flirtation, and carefully negotiated desire. From cocktails and conversation to the rules of consent, safety, and discretion, Jasmine shares what it’s actually like to step into these exclusive spaces where sophistication and sexuality meet. Tom may even have a new wingwoman... if he ever frequents a sex club!
Expect curiosity, candour, a few laughs, and a rare glimpse into one of the most intriguing corners of kink culture.

Sleep Tight… or Do You? | Exploring Somnophilia
In this week’s episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore one of the more controversial and often misunderstood kinks: Somnophilia, the fantasy of intimacy with a sleeping partner.
Handled with their signature blend of humour, curiosity, and honesty, the duo unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface of this taboo subject. Is it about vulnerability? Trust? Control? Or something deeper rooted in human desire and psychology?
As always, this isn’t about shock value, it’s about understanding.
Together, they explore:
The psychological drivers behind somnophilia fantasies

The crucial role of explicit consent and boundaries

How fantasy differs from real-world dynamics

Why taboo desires don’t automatically make someone “wrong”

And how couples can safely communicate about sensitive kinks

Expect laughter, surprising insights, and a refreshingly open conversation that challenges assumptions while keeping things grounded and respectful. Tune in and join Tom and Isabelle as they shine a light on another corner of human desire, no judgement, just curiosity.

'Men Only': The Art of Desire
In this men-only episode, Tom explores the often-misunderstood truth about female desire: great sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom, it begins in the moments that come before it.
Introducing the concept of Core Play, Tom unpacks how everyday attention, emotional presence, and genuine connection throughout the day build arousal, trust, and intimacy with female partners. From small acts of care and meaningful communication to understanding the biological and psychological rhythms of desire, this episode re-frames intimacy as something cultivated, not requested at 10pm!
Blending humour, straight-talk, and practical insight, The Art of Desire offers men a powerful shift in perspective: invest in connection, and desire follows. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, marriage, or navigating modern partnerships, this episode reveals how showing up differently can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship in the process.